Saturday, February 27, 2010

Crashing LNY

I can't believe that i disappeared from this space for a good four weeks!
Oh my, i wasn't even aware how did those days flew past.

The Lunar New Year breezed through without much traces, as though the original fifteen-days event was officially refused to four, those that were labeled as public holidays.
On the eve of LNY, i woke up, early enough to give my room a spring-clean and just the book shelve alone, it took me more than an hour.
Not mentioning the drawer chest, the wardrobe and the tv case which by the time i considered it done, three hours had past. Gosh...it was hard labour.
My only consolation was that it's only a once-a-year chore.
I had to get rid of the rubbish to make space for the new batch (of rubbish). My logic. Hah.
Reunion dinner commenced at around six in the evening but it was ruined before we could even tuck in.
As usual, Mum started off with her anger-threats and this time, it included canceling reunion next year and even the visitations the next day.
Shan't go into the details but i concluded it to be a family tragedy when insensible and insensitive creatures exist. Sigh.
I plonked myself in front of the computer after dinner, and unsurprisingly, most of my contacts were offline. But Beng's appearance a while later indeed came as a very pleasant surprise!
Eversince the uber brief farewell and eventually his departure on the last day of January, he seemed to have vanished from earth.
Hence the long (one sided) webcaming chat was good albeit the rush as he literally updated by the days. He also brought me around the house he was temporary putting up in and i didn't expect houses in Perth can be THAT small.
The bedroom can easily be one-third smaller than the bedroom of our three-room flat.
Detailing every aspects of his new way of living, the interactions with his multinational course mates, the uber high ego Aussie tutors, i see everything as an appeal to me.
Gosh...i shan't think too much into it.
He showed me the scones he baked for his assignment and geez...i'm so proud of him. =)

I had to go two hours later as Eric was already on his way to pick me for our annual LNY movie with the rest!
It was our third consecutive year of midnight movie on LNY eve and it has gradually become a tradition we all wish to keep.
To end off the night, we would always proceed for a drink at the prata shop along Bencoolen Street, gazing at the streams of vehicles turning out from the temples, with long thick joss sticks protruding out from their windows.
Considering that service was as per normal the following day, we had to keep the night short(er).
Arrived home at 2am and crashed immediately.

There wasn't a better way to start the LNY with a church service!
It was observed that on special days like this, the attendance could easily be halfed, but i thought this year was actually not that bad. Just a quarter lesser?
Packing up was record quick as everyone had a long day of activities awaiting.
With the aftermath from last night's saga, i deliberated for a while before dialing home and heaved a sigh of relief when Mum said the brothers were on their way and we were heading to Aunt's house. We didn't mention anything about the night before ever since.
I've never enjoyed LNY visitation but yet i think it's necessary. The once-a-year visits somehow become an indication that we are not losing touch. Even though we merely ate and watched television programs which are frequent not of our preference.
That was when iPhone became the best companion! Yes i know it's rude.
I can't stand people isolating themselves into the world of technology when there's obviously a group activity going on. Not even when one claims that he/she is listening.
But since i couldn't comment or participate in their "adult-talk", i guessed it was alright for me to just look up and nod occasionally. :p
After Aunt's place, we proceeded to visit Grandpa at a home.
It was quite sad that he couldn't spend his LNY at home and worse, bedridden.
Nevertheless, i was pretty sure he sensed our presence.
In less than five hours, we accomplished Visitations 2010 under the scorching heat and the killing sun.
Mum and i crashed immediately upon arriving home and got up just in time for dinner.

LNY day two, i met Jac for lunch at Marche and boy, i fell in love with this Swiss-Germany restaurant all over again.
I was devastated after its evacuation from the malls in town and with the only branch remaining in Vivocity, it's considered fortunate if you could beat the queue.
The new establishment at 313 @ Somerset occupies the first level and the first basement with the seating at the later. It's undoubtedly a tad claustrophobic with the low ceiling but the cosy country decor and the delicious spread of food make up to it. =)


After a hearty lunch, we headed to the cinema for Valentine's Day and we left the theatre feeling blissful. =) Strongly recommended, if it's still showing.
Dinner was with Jer and Sejin as they returned from Korea to spend LNY as husband and wife.

As Sejin had an air-stewardess friend who stopped over here for a night, she joined us for the night and while the two Korean ladies got engrossed with their girls talk, Jer and i were enjoying our Singlish chat as well.
Our night ended after browsing 700 pictures of their wedding and honeymoon.
I crashed immediately when i got home.


On the third day, i started off to Fen's place and then to Ps LY's.
LNY would never be completed without having a game (or more) of mahjong!!
Like cycling (or swimming for some), it's a skill that you'll never lose once mastered. You would only get better. =)
As the night gets older, i got more dampened by the post-holiday syndrome.
I wished i had taken leave for the rest of the week. Or maybe forever.
Oh wells.

The only thing that i looked forward on the first day back at work after a long weekend, was to end the day.
Seriously, i think i've lost my motivation totally. That's another story altogether.
Anyway, considering that i won't be seeing Jer for the rest of the year, i decided to send them off at the airport this time.
If i recalled correctly, the last time i did that was when he set off to Brisbane for his studies.
For that, i deserved to be suaned. =p
But i also realised that i really didn't like the feeling of seeing my friend, especially close ones, leaving before my eyes. The idea of parting is just too depressing.
I'm so gonna miss him. =(


Thankfully, i managed to convince him to join the iPhoners!
With the uber amazing whatsapp application, we can text each other for free, anytime anywhere, and best, we can even send pictures and mark our locations instantly!
Just that i would never know where is he only if i read Korean.

Since LNY started, the sun gets more generous each day.

A temperature of 35 degree celsius is totally unbearable and i wished i carry a portable air-condition everywhere i go.
Even though so, i blast a fan AND my air con every night before i could fall asleep. No kidding!
It was reported that February was the driest month in 140 years, since 1869 and the heat will last till May.
That is it! I'm migrating.

Friday, February 26, 2010

下一站,幸福。。。花拓也篇



我为他流泪。
也为他心碎。
我以為我的溫柔 能給妳整個宇宙 
我以為我能全力 填滿妳感情的缺口
專心陪在妳左右 彌補他一切的錯 
也許我太過天真 以為奇蹟會發生

Friday, February 05, 2010

Simple Pleasures

It's been a long time since i SCREAMED TGIF.
I've not been so looking forward to the weekend like i do now. Sigh...the reason is clear.
I concluded that i have a love-hate relationship with my work (it used to be just "love").
Currently at the "hate" phase and i think it'll last for quite a while. Until the equilibrium can be balanced by some other factors.
Albeit the depressing time in office, i managed to find some perks which neutralized my state of mind a little. =)

On Wednesday, i took the afternoon off for my annual follow-up at KKH. Oh my, it has been a year! Another hurdle to leap. *gulp*
I was scheduled to do a blood test which required me to fast from midnight the day before. By the time i arrived at the hospital, it was already fourteen hours without food. I could almost whack anyone who came in my way when i was dragging myself to Delifrance after the test, with the little energy i was left with. A hungry man is an angry man.
After gobbling down a crab mayo croissant meal in 15 minutes, i made my way to the Diagnostic Imaging (DI) centre for my ultrasound. Satisfied. Full bladder (neccessary for visibility at the pelvis area). Perfect.
I left the centre 20 minutes later. How efficient was that. =)
The visits to KKH have always been very pleasant and i credit to their helpful and loving nurses who are like mothers to me. I also realised that Dr Chia won the "Service from the Heart" award from one of the posters on the wall. She's indeed a gem!
The overall atmosphere of the place is also warmer, with the blissful mothers or mother-to-bes and the newborns and toddlers. Definitely less suffocating than other government hospitals packed with grouchy elderly and their entourage of companions.
Thank God for Dr Wong from the clinic where i got my referral seven years ago. =)

I left the hospital, smiling, and bused to Katong Shopping Centre as i was meeting Anthea for karaoke.
I knew i was going to be early, thus i've arranged for dessert with Koko. I sure know how to make good use of my time. Hah.
It was already 6pm when Anthea and i arrived at Teo Heng KTV, which we have been hearing so much about. The room we were allocated was small and smelly but i was immediately thrilled by the touch-screen song reservation system. Think iphone. Wow.
We had a great time and it was such a privilege to sing with the champion of Brighton Cup Singing Competition alright! (It took place just last Sunday and Anthea emerged at the winner after beating 70 contestants!)
Ended the evening with supper at Old Hong Kong Tea House at Katong Village, enjoying Anthea's stories of TV production. Happy. =)

Thursday, it was movie date with Wilson, my traveling and movie buddy he said.
Since it was his birthday the day before, it was my treat at ichiban boshi @ PP.
Ever since its refurbishment, i've always wanted to go but unfortunately my ex-PP buddy hates ichiban. Who would hate ichiban?? Oh well.
Movie was at Kallang Leisure Park, as we wanted to stay away from the crowd. But for sure we were not expecting to have the entire theatre to ourselves! Wil had to emphasize that he didn't book a private screening. Haha.
Just as we started to feel uneasy, three couples started to stream in consecutively. Phew.
The Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus is a fantastical morality tale, set in the present-day. It tells the story of Dr. Parnassus and his extraordinary ‘Imaginarium’, a travelling show where members of the audience get an irresistible opportunity to choose between light and joy or darkness and gloom.
Ok i lifted that synopsis online coz after the show, my first statement to Wil was "what exactly is this show about?".
Seriously not my cup of tea. But definitely more bearable than New York I Love You.
By the time i reached home, it was already past midnight and i was dead beat. Happy. =)

Simple pleasures of a hectic work life.

Monday, February 01, 2010

再见了

今天受委屈了。
很自然的,就打开msn想找你发牢骚。才浑然察觉,你已不在。
说真的,还没习惯没有你的日子。或许我真得太依赖你了。
以往不管受了多少气,重在你的诙谐下,一切都能化解。
现在的我,累计在心里闷气,只能让时间去化解。
憋得很辛苦。尤其还得强颜欢笑的故作大方,故作坚强。

你还好吗?
你的离去,也为这段机缘巧合建立起的感情,画下了句点。
我们再也无须为彼此的期望而承受任何压力。
也该是时候释怀了。
短暂的两年,发展得快,结束的也快。
但我从没后悔,也打从心底感谢你在这些日子带给我的欢乐时光。

短期内应该会很难适应。
可是打着独立新女性头衔的我,会再次独领风骚。
我会过得很好。
你也要。。。。

祝。。。幸福快乐。